>>I Dieci Perfetti<<

hisoka SG

i'll prob have a reaction if a girl hugs me hard Laughing

edit: reatction depends on format of female

Othello_Red SG

someone does care girl, that person just may not show it, that's all. being independent is good, but we all need someone to rely on sometimes don't we?

renorenal SG

>>starblue - it be best if you could tell us what you mean by 'allergic' particularly your definition through your reaction, responds and thinking alike...

starblue SG

yeah... if only i can REASON my problems away....

renorenal SG

Originally posted by hisoka:

i'll prob have a reaction if a girl hugs me hard Laughing

i think you spelled that wrongly...

the Bear SG

he's not depressed because of you...

he's worried because you are depressed and wishes he can make things better for you..

it's not depression... it's care Wink

it's a GOOD THING!

alfagal SG

kekeke

hisoka SG

did i?

rainee SG

sometimes they think they shud leave u alone ma...cos maybe they sense from ur reaction that you dun like them to be around when you are feeling sad...

so u need to not fear abt asking them to stay if dats wat u really want...dun contradict your own feelings...

alfagal SG

Originally posted by rainee:
[b]

sometimes they think they shud leave u alone ma...cos maybe they sense from ur reaction that you dun like them to be around when you are feeling sad...

so u need to not fear abt asking them to stay if dats wat u really want...dun contradict your own feelings...[/b]

Othello_Red SG

you may not be able to reason them away, but you can teach yourself to think differently. i was like that in the past. now, little by little, i'm teaching myself to cross the bridges when i get to them.

starblue SG

i guess whenever someone suddenly gets overly concerned with me, i'll sort of jump back a bit, and be unsure of how to respond. i do hug my friends sometimes, when they're down, but when they do it to me, i just feel weird and i just go, "hey dun worry ok, i'm fine." or somthing lidat.

as for strangers, i really dun like being touched, however casually. a frown is always inevitable, but sometimes i even feel.... claustophobic...

renorenal SG

>> starblue

perhaps your problem would be not getting enough attention from your family

>> hence leading to you not being able to open up to your family members

>> over-time you begin to experience this and finally accept that it's all on yourself if you want to survive

>> you then bring this to the outside world and you can't share your problems with others for the fear that your respond will be like that of your family members (subconsciously)

>> you then start to shut it down and make your own decisions and definitions of what you expect from a person who is close to you

>> leading eventually when you have problems overloading and clouding your mind, you can't free it out because there is few ppl to talk to and they might never be there

>> loss of trust and hope on those when it comes to sharing your problems and sadness

alfagal SG

agree w reno…

rainee SG

lol u can see a lot of this kinda case in AA...all these guys make me mad sometimes...they themselves willingly do everything for the girl even tho she already make it clear she doesnt want to have them as her special one...after some time they got bored and starts saying that all girls are sluts and only want to take them for a ride... Rolling Eyes

renorenal SG

Laughing alfagal got it...

Othello_Red SG

not proud of the fact, but some guys are just b*stards... Rolling Eyes

alfagal SG

tatz y we are working in e same clinic...

renorenal SG

you feel weird on yourself or weird of the person who hugs you?

hisoka SG

i know i got it to but if you read the edited version you will know i used that word intentionally

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